I am on a train. It is a long journey back to London and I am sad to be leaving Kyiv, again. But I am looking forward to seeing Marta and Bunster. On that Sunday night, before I left for Ukraine, I was putting Bunster to bed and he says to me “Daddy, can we all go to Ukraine one day?” I look at him and said “I hope so Bun man”. He then says “Can we stay there forever?” I almost started to cry, but I know this naughty little Bunster and I say to him curiously, “How come you want to be in Ukraine?” And he says “Because my toys are there?” Ah, the honesty of children. I got a cool present for this little man from an awesome toy shop in the city – he is going to love it.

“The EU and the US alike — have taken far too long to cut off Russian gas and oil from world markets. The US government has stopped all military aid to Ukraine — what continues are shipments of US arms to Ukraine that are purchased by Europeans, as well as European arms shipments. Even though the Ukrainian need is great and the Europeans are paying for everything, the United States has been slow to make deliveries. We are not sending the Ukrainians the air defense they need to protect themselves. This is one reason millions of people are in the cold, and why civilians die almost every day.

The major policy of the Trump administration has been to use the word “peace.” Peace comes when an aggressor ceases to aggress and the country that is attacked can rebuild. But Trump has been unable to muster a policy that would change Russia’s incentives. He has difficulty even presenting the war as a war, rather than as a misunderstanding about real estate; his administration issues official statements that praise Russia for its desire for peace, even as the offensives continue missiles fall. Trump has put pressure on Ukrainians, who, unlike the Russians, have to fight. For Russia, this is an ego war, a war by a dictator for his own legacy. For Ukraine, this is a war of national sovereignty and physical survival.“

“Ukrainians shouldn’t have to be resilient. If Ukraine’s partners were to give the kind of support Kyiv continually begged for, civilians would not have to be suffering.

Praising their resilience is like standing on the shore, watching a person struggle not to drown in a riptide. Instead of sending a lifeboat to save them, you praise them for being such a strong swimmer. If you decide a nation is resilient, you shrink your obligation to take any action to help them.

Resilient people always figure it out on their own, right?

The continued repetition of a resilience narrative is also damaging because it slowly softens outsiders’ comprehension of what war is over time. Foreign audiences don’t want to think about the ever-deteriorating conditions civilians are forced to live in — they want to read about how bars stay open during a blackout, or focus on the ways in which Russia could be losing.

It’s uncomfortable to think about how the trauma of Russia’s war in Ukraine is affecting real people, every day, and how it will seep down through generations. It’s far more digestible to view the war through the lens of resilience because it transforms a nation’s suffering into a positive, hopeful, character-forming experience.

We love a story where a hero finds strength amid immense adversity, because in our culture, we’re taught that the character who chooses to be resilient always wins, no matter the odds.

Resilience is, at its core, a positive character trait when you have a choice in how to act. When we talk about Ukraine’s resilience, we omit what Ukrainians know very well — that Russia isn’t going to stop its war until Ukrainian independence is crushed. Ukrainians have no choice but to continue and resist Russia’s demands.”

https://www.dailymaverick.co.za/opinionista/2026-02-11-letter-from-kyiv-exhausted-but-unbroken-after-four-years-of-fullscale-war/

As one might remember, last week Trump said that he asked Russian President Vladimir Putin to not strike Ukraine for a week, and Putin agreed to that. Days later, of course, Russia unleashed yet another mass aerial attack. When asked about that, Trump nevertheless said Putin “kept his word.” Kyiv groaned a collective “WTF?” at this. One Ukrainian politician aptly called it a “mockery of our misery.”

https://www.biznews.com/global-citizen/ronnie-aptekerukraines-war-feye-witness

This week saw the continuation of trilateral peace negotiations in Abu Dhabi, where representatives of Ukraine, Russia and the U.S. came together to discuss ending the war. This is the second round of this specific attempt at negotiations — hosted by the United Arab Emirates, and taking place after a reshuffle in the Ukrainian delegation. What we witness is a performance, meant for one spectator: U.S. President Donald Trump. The Ukrainian delegation is forced to go on with it to show Trump that Ukraine is not an obstacle to peace. Russia, on its part, uses the “negotiations” to buy time and not give the U.S. an incentive to introduce more sanctions or increase its backing of Ukraine.

I am back in Kyiv. It is very very cold, and everyone is on edge.

Electricity, heating and water are on and off, and who knows how much more the infrastructure can handle. If the evil Russians successfully strike more of the heating plants and electricity stations, then God knows how people are going to make it until the end of winter.

I am happy to be in Kyiv in our home here, but I feel alone. Perhaps it is the cold weather. Perhaps it is the mood. Perhaps it is the world. No one seems to care. I am sure people do care, but Ukraine certainly doesn’t get enough support. If they did, people would not be suffering like this. Children and the elderly are having a very difficult time. The country is exhausted. People are worried. The word “apocalypse” often comes up in conversation.

I was reading an update from an inspired writer I follow from the Kyiv Independent – I am cutting and pasting her words here :

“The resilience narrative is a trap. Not the idea itself – the actual daily practice of continuing under impossible conditions. That’s real, and it’s necessary, and we’re doing it because there’s no alternative. What’s dangerous is the way that word gets deployed by people watching from safety to make sense of our suffering. It’s a heroic term, an honorable one even.

But like all words that get used too much, it starts to obscure more than it reveals.

When you read about Ukrainian resilience, I need you to know: none of us here are doing okay. We are functioning, which is not the same thing. We go to work because rent is still due. We go to parties because the alternative is staring at walls, waiting for the next air raid siren. We maintain relationships, pursue careers, argue about restaurant choices, complain about traffic – all the ordinary friction of life continues because if we stopped to fully metabolize what’s happening, we would dissolve. We would become puddles of grief on the floor, unable to move, and that’s not a metaphor. That’s a real possibility we each avoid through sheer force of will and the accident of having obligations that won’t wait.

On top of every wartime worry – where is the person I love, will the power stay on, will that sound be thunder or something worse – people still carry all the peacetime worries too. The difficult neighbors, the failing relationships, the aging parents, the children who won’t sleep, the bills they can’t pay. The war doesn’t pause these problems, it just makes them harder to solve and less appropriate to mention in certain social circles.

So we continue. Not because we’re resilient, but because stopping means drowning, and we’ve decided – collectively, stubbornly, perhaps foolishly – that we’d rather stay afloat until the day we can finally breathe again.

That day comes when the Kremlin burns. Not metaphorically. Not diplomatically. Actually burns.

Until then, we tread water and call it living.”

It is totally surreal being here now. I will share more thoughts soon.

Kyiv is being hit every other night. Russian missiles and drones are trying to destroy the infrastructure and also residential buildings are being attacked. People are dying. And many are suffering. Children and the elderly in particular. It is a very cold winter in Ukraine and so many buildings are without heating, electricity and water.

The Russian invasion of Ukraine is soon going to be in its fifth year, and the world has stopped caring. Well, at least, the world’s politicians. I mean, there are these farcical peace talks taking place as I write this, and somehow no one raises an eyebrow and condemns Russia for the constant evil attacks on Ukraine. We don’t see anyone putting pressure on Russia to stop. What we do see is Trump putting pressure on Ukraine, claiming that “Zelensky doesn’t want peace”. Peace could come right now if Russia simply stops attacking Ukraine. Ukraine poses no threat to Russia.

These current nonsense peace talks are nothing more than an attempt by Ukraine and its European allies to prevent the Trump administration from accusing Kyiv of being unwilling to achieve peace, walking away from the process, and even cutting off assistance to Ukraine. The truth is, all these so-called negotiations are with America, not Russia. The Russians are just there to try and waste time. They also keep up their bullshit story that they want peace. How come if Russia wants peace they keep bombarding Ukraine, and how come Trump and his gang turn a blind eye to it. WTF ?!

What a shameful state of affairs.

“It’s not ok to watch an entire nation being bombed into freezing in brutal subzero temperatures.

It’s not ok to pretend russia wants peace while it targets homes, hospitals, and energy grid, aiming to destroy the Ukrainian nation. 

It’s not ok to delay air defences while civilians sleep in cold shelters and darkness.

It’s not ok to care more about bloody russian money than the lives of Ukrainian children.

It’s not ok to reward an aggressor with lands and people. 

It’s not ok to normalize war crimes, mass graves, and deported children.

So many things happening around are utterly wrong, pushing the prospects of real peace further away.“

Trump is insane. And yet so many Americans will follow him off a cliff. He could decide to attack a random country because they were “mean to hm”, like Norway. His madness knows no limits and he is just warming up. The world still has 3 more years of this lunatic.

The thing is, if America collapses, we are all in shit. Just think of all the investment funds that are tied to America and the US Dollar.

If Trump does want to invade another country then will the US military refuse such an order. Could American soldiers be ordered to kill Europeans?

Trump got angry because he was not awarded a Nobel Prize. Can you imagine what else could trigger this maniac. Someone looks at him funny and the next thing there is an attack.

Think of Greenland like Ukraine’s Crimea. If Trump does take over Greenland then it will not stop there.

Are we all over-reacting when it comes to Trump? It sure looks though like he is doing what he is telling the world he wants to do. Just like Putin. And Hitler. Nobody believed these people but perhaps we should. Trump has unlimited power and he can do whatever he wants. I reckon this is exactly what he will do … whatever he wants. The warning signs are all there.

“Historically it’s a fact you have stop dictators right at the start otherwise it leads to war! Europeans should have stepped in immediately when Russia started using proxies to take land in Ukraine, then then Russia got away with shooting down a civilian airline plane and then annexing Crimea and of course Russia invades Ukraine full on and then the Europeans wake up but America still thinks appeasement is the right option to resist Russian aggression. Putin has been using Hitler’s playbook since 2016! Did nobody bother to look at events in the 1930’s that lead to WW2.

This is a strange world for someone like me who grew up in a world where lines were drawn and no one was allowed to cross them. Korean war, Suez Canal war, Vietnam, Cuba missile crisis, etc. Not a perfect world but there was some order. Then the West decided we are all the same so let’s win over our adversaries by commercial ties and make friends with Russia and China. These two embraced the opportunity to enrich themselves without becoming democratic but the main problem is both have the same crazy world domination plan deep within their psyche. China got back Hong Kong and look what happened and now they still want Taiwan and be the next colonial power.

Russia now just wants to go back to the USSR and take over all the Eastern Bloc countries.

That old story tale this all up: A scorpion meets a turtle at the edge of a river and asks for a ride across a river but the turtle says, no because you can sting me and I would drown! The scorpion says but I would die too as I can’t swim! The turtle says yes, that makes sense so come aboard and I will get you across . When they were half way across the river the scorpion stung the turtle and as they were both dying the turtle asked why did you do that you have killed us both and the scorpion said it’s my nature!“

Trump is going to keep on pushing the envelope because no one stops him. The tech bros and big oil are working him and greed is the name of the game. It is all going to coming crashing down. You can’t cheat nature forever.

“Yes, NATO is dead now.

And the final nail in its coffin was driven by the biggest useful idiot the Kremlin and Beijing have ever had in the history of the Western world.

He did it out of his megalomania, ultra-vulgarity, his hunger for the easiest money and the cheapest attention, shallowness, ignorance, and an addiction to self-glorification in front of TV cameras, which has long since crossed into madness.

He did it out of sheer amorality, too: an insatiable urge to humiliate, humiliate, humiliate those who depend on him, for nothing but petty self-affirmation — while groveling before powerful and criminal enemies, just to get a scrap of their approval and feel like he belongs among the big bad guys.

But his is not the end. It is the beginning of a new alliance in a new world, a change that has been overdue for far too long.

The nations that remain faithful to the values of the free world will stay together.

And now, on the front line of that defense, stands Ukraine, with unmatched experience of the warfare of a new era, and a military exceptional in its resilience and heroism against one of the largest and most relentless war machines in human history.“

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