The Bunster is almost 6 years old (his birthday is on the 29th) and he is very curious. This high energy little man is a sponge, and he is learning non-stop. Of course he keeps asking what his dad is doing all the time when I say “I need to do some work Bun, please stop making so much noise.” “What is this work … ?” he sometimes asks. It looks like all I do is stare a laptop screen all day. That in itself is concerning, but it is what is on that screen that is not so good for the Bun to see.
If I was in the fashion industry then perhaps he would look at me glaring at images of people in trendy clothes. And if I was a travel agent then perhaps he would look at me checking out pictures of hotels, and travel itineraries. And if I was in the automobile sector then perhaps he would look at photos of cool cars on my laptop screen. But I am working on a film project that is about Ukraine and there are visuals on my laptop of explosions, devastation and pain.
The Bunster knows about the war but we try our best not to talk about it in front of him. He is very sensitive and his one granny is in Kyiv and he sometimes asks us “Are rockets going to hurt Baba?” It is hard to believe that war is a part of lives and I fear that war is not going away. My biggest fear is that the Bunster is going to grow up in a world where war is a fixture, and that is incredibly sad.
We believe in the work we are doing. We are trying to make a difference. We are trying to share a story about Ukraine and what people in Kyiv have experienced there from 2018 up until today. This work is from the heart and it is full of purpose. One day, when the Bunster is a bit older he will watch the chapters of Kyiv of Mine and learn something about where he comes from and how the world there has changed since 2018 (before the full scale invasion) up until today, in this fifth year of this brutal war, which has no end in sight.
